
A Beginner’s Guide to the Energy Wisdom Behind Your Midlife Reinvention
If you've joined my 21 Days to an Empowered Mindset challenge or are exploring my midlife reinvention coaching work, you've likely come across terms like Qi, meridians, Yin and Yang, and the emotional connection to your organs. These aren't just poetic metaphors — they are foundational principles in Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) that offer deep insight into how energy flows through your body, mind, and spirit.
Here’s a breakdown to help you understand what they mean — and how they relate to your personal growth and healing.
🌬 What Is Qi?
Qi (pronounced chee) is often translated as “life force” or “vital energy.” It’s the subtle energy that flows through everything in the universe — including your body. In TCM, health is the result of free-flowing, balanced Qi. When Qi is blocked, stagnant, or deficient, we experience fatigue, emotional imbalance, and even physical symptoms.
💡 Examples of Qi imbalance:
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Feeling exhausted even after rest
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Mental fog or lack of motivation
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Getting sick easily or struggling to bounce back from stress
When your Qi is strong and flowing, you feel energized, clear, and emotionally grounded.
🛤 What Are Meridians?
Meridians are the pathways through which Qi flows throughout your body — like rivers of energy. There are 12 primary meridians, each connected to a specific organ and its corresponding emotional and energetic qualities.
🌀 Each meridian has both a physical and an emotional dimension.
Here are a few key examples:
Organ/Meridian | Emotion When Balanced | Emotion When Imbalanced |
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Heart | Joy, love, clarity | Restlessness, anxiety, heartbreak |
Liver | Vision, motivation | Anger, frustration, resentment |
Kidneys | Willpower, courage | Fear, insecurity, exhaustion |
Lungs | Grief release, inspiration | Sadness, apathy, low vitality |
Spleen | Nurturing, presence | Worry, overthinking, overwhelm |
Understanding which organ-meridian pair is out of balance can be a powerful guide in both your emotional healing and energy alignment.
☯️ What Are Yin and Yang?
Yin and Yang are the two complementary forces that make up all of life.
They are not opposites, but interdependent energies that exist in constant dynamic balance.
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Yin is cool, quiet, nourishing, internal — like night, rest, intuition, and stillness.
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Yang is warm, active, expressive, external — like daylight, movement, and action.
In a healthy, empowered state, your Yin and Yang are in harmony.
In midlife, especially for women, Yin energy often becomes depleted, which can lead to symptoms like burnout, anxiety, insomnia, and emotional overwhelm. The work becomes less about pushing forward (Yang) and more about rebuilding your reserves (Yin) — slowing down, softening, and restoring balance.
🔑 Why This Matters for Midlife Reinvention
In our Western culture, burnout and emotional disconnection are often treated with more doing — more plans, more goals, more hustle. But TCM teaches that true healing starts by returning to your center, tuning into the flow of your Qi, and listening to what your body is telling you through its symptoms and emotions.
By understanding your energy through the lens of TCM:
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You can work with your natural rhythms instead of against them
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You begin to see emotional blocks as signs of energetic imbalance — not personal failure
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You reclaim your power by nourishing your roots, not just trimming the branches
✍️ Start Here:
Ask yourself:
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Where am I feeling blocked or depleted?
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Which emotions seem to keep showing up for me?
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What part of me is asking to be nurtured — not fixed?
And if you’re in my challenge or coaching program, pay attention to which organ systems show up in our daily prompts — they are deeply tied to your emotional patterns and the transformation you're calling in.
Want to go deeper? Stay tuned for more TCM-inspired practices, rituals, and journal prompts throughout the challenge — or reach out to explore how we can work together 1:1 on your midlife reinvention journey.
🧡 With love and Qi,
Devon Vernetti
Midlife Reinvention Coach
@purposefully_you_coaching
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