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At Purposefully You™, Midlife Becomes Sacred

We believe midlife is not a crisis—it’s a sacred turning point.
Here, ancient wisdom meets modern coaching to guide you through a meaningful reinvention.

Rooted in Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) and infused with our signature Phoenix Process™, our approach helps you return to your natural rhythms, release what no longer serves, and rise into the life you were always meant to live.

This Isn’t Just Coaching. It’s Energetic Reinvention

Midlife is more than change—it’s a profound invitation.
At Purposefully You™, you’ll move beyond coping and step into a life of harmony, clarity, and soul-aligned purpose.

This is your moment to come home to yourself.

 

Devon Vernetti
Tal - Executive Coach & Reinvention Risk Taker

“Devon’s transformational coaching helped me look inward and discover a part of myself that I needed to listen to. This was a truly transformative experience and I highly recommend for anyone that is looking to heal and discover what is meaningful to them!!!”

Executive Coach & Reinvention Risk Taker

Why Traditional Chinese Medicine?

In TCM, health isn’t just the absence of symptoms—it’s the presence of flow, balance, and wholeness.
Life moves in seasons, and midlife is nature’s invitation to realign your energy, honor your truth, and embrace your second spring.

We translate this ancient wisdom into modern practices—rituals, tools, and coaching—that support emotional healing, energetic balance, and deep spiritual renewal.


The Five Elements: Your Inner Blueprint for Reinvention

At the heart of your transformation is your guiding element—Wood, Fire, Earth, Metal, or Water.
Each holds specific wisdom for your healing and growth.

Through The Phoenix Process™, we guide you to:

  • 🌊 Root in your truth (Water) – deepen rest, intuition, and trust.

  • 🪙 Release what no longer serves (Metal) – let go of old stories, roles, and grief.

  • 🔥 Radiate your joy and power (Fire) – reignite passion, intimacy, and expression.

  • 🌍 Recenter with intention (Earth) – ground yourself in clarity, care, and nourishment.

  • 🌳 Rise into purpose (Wood) – reclaim vision, courage, and aligned direction.

When these elements are in harmony, you step into a life that feels authentic, energized, and whole.

This season is yours to claim.
Let this workbook be your guide back to clarity, courage, and your purposefully rewritten life.

Ready to Reclaim Your Power in Midlife?

Take the Midlife Reinvention Quiz to discover which Phase of Reinvention you’re in — and the elemental support that will guide your very next step forward.

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Yin & Yang: Reclaiming Energetic Balance

Midlife is an invitation to redefine balance—not just between work and rest, but between doing and being.

Through the Phoenix Process™, you’ll learn to:

  • Reconnect with your inner Yin—intuition, stillness, and wisdom

  • Release chronic overdoing and performance-driven burnout

  • Redefine productivity as energetic sustainability

When Yin and Yang move in harmony, your life regains clarity, vitality, and flow—from the inside out.


Organ–Emotion Mapping: Your Body Holds the Story

Your body keeps score of every season you’ve lived through. In TCM, each organ system carries its own emotional truth—a key to deeper healing and release:

  • Liver (Wood): frustration, anger, blocked growth

  • Heart (Fire): joy, overexcitement, burnout

  • Spleen (Earth): worry, overthinking, depletion

  • Lungs (Metal): grief, perfectionism, difficulty letting go

  • Kidneys (Water): fear, exhaustion, loss of direction

Through body-based practices, breathwork, and elemental rituals, we help you feel, release, and transform what’s been stuck—so you can reclaim energy, harmony, and emotional freedom.

Your next chapter won’t write itself — Grab the TCM Reinvention Workbook here.
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The Seasons of Life: Honoring Your Midlife Cycle

Midlife isn’t a crisis—it’s a sacred season. Much like Autumn and Winter, this stage of life invites release, reflection, and reinvention.

Instead of pushing forward with outdated strategies, we guide you to:

  • Align with your natural rhythm and the wisdom of seasonal energy

  • Let go of what’s expired to make space for authentic renewal

  • Celebrate this sacred time of insight, emergence, and rebirth

Through the Phoenix Process™, you’ll move through cycles of release and rebirth with compassion and clarity—returning to yourself in a way that feels deeply soul-nourishing.

How We Integrate TCM & The Phoenix Process™ in Coaching

Your midlife reinvention is personal, powerful, and rooted in both ancient healing wisdom and modern coaching tools.

Here’s what your journey includes:

  • Elemental Discovery – quiz-based insights to uncover your Five Element archetype (Wood, Fire, Earth, Metal, Water)

  • Seasonal Journaling – reflections aligned with both your current life phase and nature’s seasonal cycles

  • Elemental Nutrition & Movementfood and exercise practices designed to harmonize your element and restore balance
  • Emotional Decoding – using the organ–emotion map of TCM to release grief, worry, fear, or frustration

  • Energy Rituals & Visualization – breathwork, guided meditation, and embodiment practices for clarity and renewal

  • Phoenix Process™ Framework – a 5-phase path: Root, Release, Radiate, Recenter, and Rise through every stage of your reinvention

This is more than life coaching—it’s holistic midlife transformation, an energetic return to your soul’s blueprint, and a chance to rise into the chapter you were born for.