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The Five Elements of Empowerment: How the Phoenix Process™ Helps You Reconnect and Reinvent in Midlife

TCM Tips·Devon Vernetti·Sep 5, 2025· 4 minutes

The Ancient Wisdom of Energy & Renewal

In the second century BCE, the Huangdi Neijing—often called the “Bible of Chinese Medicine”—described a powerful truth: all of life is governed by the flow of Qi (vital energy), the balance of Yin and Yang, and the Five Elements—Wood, Fire, Earth, Metal, and Water.

But these aren’t just ancient concepts. The Five Elements are living energies that shape how we think, feel, heal, and grow. They are also deeply connected to the seasons of nature and the seasons of our lives.

In my coaching framework, the Phoenix Process™, we use these same elemental energies to move through reinvention. Just like a phoenix rises from the ashes, each element guides us through phases of rooting, releasing, radiating, recentering, and rising.


🌿 Why the Five Elements Matter in Midlife Reinvention

Midlife is a threshold moment. Whether it’s a career shift, relationship change, hormonal transition, or spiritual awakening—you may feel like the ground beneath you is shifting.

You may ask:

  • Why do I feel emotionally reactive—or suddenly flat?

  • Why is my energy different now?

  • Why do old triggers resurface so strongly?

The truth: these are signs of elemental imbalances calling for attention. Each of us expresses a dominant elemental energy, and it shifts as we move through life. Understanding your element within the Phoenix Process™ brings clarity, resilience, and direction.


✨ The Elements Through the Phoenix Lens

💧 Water: Root

Deep Intuition & Inner Reserves

  • Season: Winter

  • Organs: Kidneys & Bladder

  • Emotion: Fear

When Out of Balance: Fatigue, burnout, fear of change.
Phoenix Process Connection: Rooting into rest and trust. Before rising, the phoenix must pause, gather strength, and listen inward.
Empowerment Practice: Stillness, journaling to rewrite fear-based stories, warming foods, and deep hydration.


🌿 Wood: Release

Vision, Growth & Boundaries

  • Season: Spring

  • Organs: Liver & Gallbladder

  • Emotion: Anger/Irritability

When Out of Balance: Frustration, tension, boundary struggles.
Phoenix Process Connection: Releasing what no longer serves clears space for new growth. Just as trees release winter’s dormancy, the phoenix releases ashes before it rises.
Empowerment Practice: Movement, leafy greens, castor oil packs, and daily practices that restore flow.


🔥 Fire: Radiate

Joy, Passion & Connection

  • Season: Summer

  • Organs: Heart & Small Intestine

  • Emotion: Anxiety/Apathy

When Out of Balance: Insomnia, loss of joy, nervous system strain.
Phoenix Process Connection: This is the radiant glow of the phoenix in flight—connection, creativity, and joy returning after release.
Empowerment Practice: Reconnect with laughter, pleasure, barefoot walks, cooling foods, and prioritizing joy as nourishment.


🌍 Earth: Recenter

Nurturing, Grounding & Self-Worth

  • Season: Late Summer & Seasonal Transitions

  • Organs: Spleen & Stomach

  • Emotion: Worry/Overwhelm

When Out of Balance: Brain fog, bloating, overgiving, exhaustion.
Phoenix Process Connection: The phoenix lands here to recenter, ground, and integrate lessons before moving forward.
Empowerment Practice: Support digestion, simplify routines, declutter your space, and practice receiving as much as you give.


🪙 Metal: Rise

Reflection, Release & Sacred Meaning

  • Season: Autumn

  • Organs: Lungs & Large Intestine

  • Emotion: Grief/Sadness

When Out of Balance: Trouble letting go, respiratory issues, emotional heaviness.
Phoenix Process Connection: The rising phoenix releases the old with clarity and courage, stepping into its new form. Metal teaches us to honor grief, find meaning, and rise stronger.
Empowerment Practice: Breathwork, hydration, rituals of letting go, and gratitude practices that restore sacred perspective.


🌀 You Are Meant to Evolve

In both TCM and the Phoenix Process™, the elements aren’t static—they flow, shift, and transform as you do. Each phase of reinvention is a chance to align with these energies, to metabolize emotions, and to rise more fully into your authentic self.

You don’t need to become someone new. You need to return to the empowered version of who you already are.


🔍 Discover Your Empowerment Element

Feeling stuck, drained, or out of balance? In Traditional Chinese Medicine—and in the Phoenix Process™—each season of life is guided by elemental energy.

When one element becomes dominant or depleted, it impacts everything from your energy to your relationships.

Take my Empowerment Element Quiz and discover which energy you need most right now to restore balance and begin your reinvention journey from the inside out.

✅ Personalized insight
✅ Emotional & energetic guidance
✅ Practical tools to support your next chapter

👉 Take the Quiz: Discover Your Empowerment Element